{"id":199,"date":"2025-07-30T17:35:14","date_gmt":"2025-07-30T09:35:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ownslp.com\/?p=199"},"modified":"2025-08-13T20:00:41","modified_gmt":"2025-08-13T12:00:41","slug":"chapter-32-a-confession-in-recovery-cleaning-another-form-of-rehabilitation-and-an-expression-of-family-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ownslp.com\/?p=199","title":{"rendered":"Chapter 32: A Confession in Recovery &#8211; &#8220;Cleaning, Another Form of Rehabilitation and an Expression of Family Love&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">These days, I primarily do two things at home: spend time with my family and clean. This is quite a different situation compared to before. In the past, my wife did much more of the cleaning. I actually prefer a tidy space, but being busy with work, I couldn&#8217;t dedicate much time to cleaning. Still, I tried my best to clean on weekends, and my wife took care of most of it during the weekdays. While I enjoy cleaning, it wasn&#8217;t easy on busy weekends when I also had to play with the kids and tidy up various parts of the house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">However, my wife is having a tough time lately. She&#8217;s studying more as she attends graduate school, which means she hardly has any time for cleaning. My wife also likes to clean, but she simply doesn&#8217;t have the luxury of time these days. Starting graduate school again probably isn&#8217;t easy. I can only imagine how difficult it must be for her to resume studying at 35, compared to when she was 23. The period when one can study is truly a good and precious time, but it&#8217;s still hard work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">In the mornings, after the children and my wife head off to school, I start cleaning. After cleaning, I sit down for a moment to drink coffee, and then Dad comes home. Then we study together. I see this time as another form of rehabilitation for me, and a small way to give back to my family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">After my injury, I feel every day how limited my abilities are. I can&#8217;t earn money like I used to, or actively engage in social life. So, I had to find things I could do at home. Cleaning was one of them. At first, it was clumsy and difficult, but now I&#8217;m doing the cleaning in my own way. Seeing a tidy house makes me feel refreshed, and most importantly, I feel proud knowing I can alleviate some of my wife&#8217;s burden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">In these small, daily routines, I am finding new meaning in life. Even if I can&#8217;t do grand things, I want to help my family through the small tasks I <em>can<\/em> do. As my wife goes through a difficult period, I want to play a larger role at home, even if it&#8217;s just a little. I believe this is my way of repaying my family and a part of my own recovery process. Although my body is still uncomfortable and I have a long way to go, I find the strength to stand up again in this time spent with my beloved family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u2705 Simple, Repetitive Word Practice \u2013 Speech Support (English)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"1\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Fan Fan Fan Fan Fan Fan Fan Fan Fan Fan<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Penguin Penguin Penguin Penguin Penguin Penguin Penguin Penguin Penguin Penguin<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Ant Ant Ant Ant Ant Ant Ant Ant Ant Ant<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Apple Apple Apple Apple Apple Apple Apple Apple Apple Apple<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Grape Grape Grape Grape Grape Grape Grape Grape Grape Grape<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">School School School School School School School School School School<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Yawn Yawn Yawn Yawn Yawn Yawn Yawn Yawn Yawn Yawn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Pull-up bar Pull-up bar Pull-up bar Pull-up bar Pull-up bar Pull-up bar Pull-up bar Pull-up bar Pull-up bar Pull-up bar<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Jajangmyeon Jajangmyeon Jajangmyeon Jajangmyeon Jajangmyeon Jajangmyeon Jajangmyeon Jajangmyeon Jajangmyeon Jajangmyeon<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Hairbrush Hairbrush Hairbrush Hairbrush Hairbrush Hairbrush Hairbrush Hairbrush Hairbrush Hairbrush<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone Telephone<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Squirrel Squirrel Squirrel Squirrel Squirrel Squirrel Squirrel Squirrel Squirrel Squirrel<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Cigarette Cigarette Cigarette Cigarette Cigarette Cigarette Cigarette Cigarette Cigarette Cigarette<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Magnifying glass Magnifying glass Magnifying glass Magnifying glass Magnifying glass Magnifying glass Magnifying glass Magnifying glass Magnifying glass Magnifying glass<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>These days, I primarily do two things at home: spend time with my family and clean. 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